Tonight, I got to be a part of bringing my sister and two of her best friends together for a very special reason. They both live out-of-town, and arrived in town this week to surprise my sister and attend her baby shower, which takes place tomorrow. The reveal of our special guests happened tonight, after her baby class. My sister was caught completely off guard (we did a great job keeping the secret!) when two of her girlfriends she has known since grade school came around the corner. There were squeals of surprise, happiness that melted into tears, and joyful laughter.
What an incredible way to end the week!
So much love; such deep friendship. Love these ladies.
with joy and gratefulness for the besties in my life,
(PS Thanks to my brother-in-law for helping to make this night happen and not letting the cat out of the bag!!!)
Yesterday was a very socially demanding day, and today I awoke feeling a little low on energy. My morning was slow; I made a breakfast of eggs, kale, some prunes, and french press coffee with a touch of honey. Taking it easy, I moved slowly through the paces of the day waking late (after eight am!), cooking, cleaning, and regaining energy and finding my balance.
Next week, another commitment heavy weekend awaits: I have a 20 mile run to complete, and we are throwing a shower for my sister – in a month she is due to have her first child, and I will officially be an auntie! I spent time with my aunts this afternoon discussing the final details and preparations, and it was nice to see and connect with some lovely ladies in the family. I found the time with them really grounding after yesterday’s play-day full of commitments.
I drove myself home (for the first time driving on I-205 alone in my little Smart Car!), stopped at Target (the power went out while I was in the store – there are certainly no windows – pitch blackness for about ten seconds), arrived to the quiet calm of my apartment and cooked my favorite dish for this week’s lunches: baked sweet potatoes with apple. With all the rain coming down today it just felt like the right thing to cook.
While prepping and baking, I noticed that after living in my apartment for three whole months, I find myself still feeling the restlessness that I experienced days after moving in and starting to settle. I have still not completely “moved in”. I have a few small piles – items which are organized, but I have not yet found them a home.
In order to combat the chest-constricting stress I feel when these piles come into my line of sight, I resolved today that I will have piles put away by Friday this week. Primarily for myself – this feeling of uneasiness cannot be healthy to experience each day – but also due to family coming into town this weekend for my sister’s shower. I really value them and their opinion, and want them to like my place if they see it! (and I would love it to look organized and well – decorated).
How long does it take you to settle into a new home? Do you find this takes longer than you initially desire the process to take?
Here is to Nourishing self through relaxation, recovery, and resolving to de-stress!